George in Afghanistan

Dear Richard,

Thanks for the well wishes, I’m sorry I missed you as well. It is tough over here but I am doing well and my men are well. We are all tired, missions day and night and young men are still dying, six men were killed three days before Christmas, they were all Polish. I had to go and pick up the shattered bodies and destroyed vehicle. We are in their battle space. I will be very happy when this comes to an end. I should be back in Boston by mid-march. It seems an eternity away but I know it will arrive. I am truly tired of war I have seen too many horrible things and too many faces of the dead live in my head. The only good thing is that it has brought me closer to Jesus and his teaching. I miss my family, friends, and dear wife.

Best,
George

Great Film

One of the special pleasures of later life comes with encountering again the works of art you loved long ago. It is both agreeable and poignant to meet your earlier self through books, songs, and films.

Among the movies that touched me in 1940, when I was twelve, one stands out. That was The Great Dictator, in which Charlie Chaplin took on Adolf Hitler.

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Last Words

OH WOW. OH WOW. OH WOW.

These were the last words spoken by Steve Jobs as he lay on his deathbed.

We have this information thanks to his sister, Mona Simpson. She shared it in a memorial service at Stanford University on October 16, 11 days after her brother’s death.

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Star Surgeon Hires Coach

What if a surgeon engaged a personal coach to watch him (or her) at work and afterward made suggestions for improvement?

That’s what Atul Gawande has done. In case his name does not reverberate in you, he’s the 45-year-old Boston surgeon who, among many other good things, writes perceptive articles for the New Yorker magazine.

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Bishops Speak Out

Like many other Catholics of my acquaintance, I frequently feel distress at the bishops of our church. As a group and as individuals, they too often take positions that violate my sense of what they should be saying.

This applies especially to political pronouncements. Though I want them to offer leadership on public issues, I cringe when they take a position that is too narrow or short-sighted.

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Last Words

The last words of Steve Jobs, on his deathbed, were OH WOW, OH WOW, OH WOW. This is what his sister, Mona Simpson, reported in the eulogy she gave at his memorial service.

Though she is a novelist and could possibly have shaped this phrase for its dramatic effect, still it rings true to the man. While living, he was prepared for wonder and, next to death, might well have called out in a kind of ecstasy.

This way of dying fulfills what I once wrote long ago: “How can anyone on the brink of dying not be filled with an almost insane wonder?”

More House Music

As a site for the Sunday afternoon recital, an elegant Cambridge home served memorably. The music room was high-ceilinged and spacious. It comfortably held two grand pianos, back to back, and, around the walls, seating for some twenty invited guests. The host, Ruth, at 96 years of age, received us with grace (and later with wine and cookies.)

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