I write with enthusiasm in celebration of your birthday.  You may still feel mixed about such events, but for me, and many others of your friends, it’s an occasion for rejoicing.  For me, it counts as a gift that you have lived so long. So thank you for continuing to provide so much pleasure for us who value your friendship.

I will raise more than one glass of red wine in your honor.  May you continue to find pleasure in your family members and friends for whom your life continues to be so important.